Excuse me, you'll never be as much of a lady as Lady Wray. That's right, never. Not even if you went to lady school and graduated with a Phd in Lady Skills.
This doesn't mean one should stop trying to be the best lady that he/she can be. It means that we all have something to work towards, like me towards my Friday on this very Monday Monday.
I have no idea what the other 44 mixes sounded like, but I imagine that "45 mix" was the perfect combination of spunk and flair. Enduring that many mixes shows real patience, how is that for being ladylike?